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“The law of the subconscious mind works for good and bad ideas alike. This law, when applied in a negative way, is the cause of failure, frustration, and unhappiness. However, when your habitual thinking is harmonious and constructive, you experience perfect health, success, and prosperity.”
― Joseph Murphy
Neurotransmitters
How do neurotransmitters relate to growth & wellness?
Neuroplasticity & Growth Mindset
Neuroplasticity (ability to change your brain) is what happens when you develop a growth mindset. Enabling this mindset expands your thoughts and behaviors by opening a door & possibility that you are more than what you have been programmed to believe. For example, if you grow up believing you are "bad at math" you may continue to hold this belief into your career and decide not to become an engineer or scientist because it involves too many computations. In reality, you may have received a poor grade on a math assessment early in adolescence, which rooted this fear of being successful in mathematics. With consistent practice, perseverance through obstacles, and positive reinforcement, this thought becomes reprogrammed. You are inherently able to achieve anything you set your mind too, and I believe that is a fact.
Serotonin
Dopamine
Glutamate
Gamma-AminoButyric Acid (GABA)
Norepinephrine
Adrenaline
Norepinephrine
Endorphins
Body Scan Exercise
Completing a body scan exercise once a week bolsters the connection between our mind and body. Here are some effective strategies that Dr. Tara Swart suggests. Make sure to note how you feel after completing the exercises.
Benefits of Body Scanning
Helps lessen anxiety and decreases stress levels
Improves sleep quality
Reduces chronic pain
Improves self-awareness and focus
Helps stimulate relaxation
“Through practicing body scan awareness meditation, we can greatly reduce the detrimental effects of stress and make our working lives pleasant and enjoyable.”
― Christopher Dines
How the Body Scan Meditation Practice Reduces Biological Stress
Mindfulness & Stress Hormones
Cortisol is a primary stress hormone produced in the adrenal glands
Its primary roles is to suppress immune function and reduce inflammation
DHEA (dehydroepiandrosterone) is a stress hormone, but it has the opposite effect of cortisol
A balance of the two is important to maintain health- when the ratio of cortisol to DHEA is elevated (more cortisol, less DHEA), the body is less able to effectively handle stress and is more prone to disease
In an experiment comparing a control and a body scan group, the body scan group showed a greater decrease in the ratio of cortisol to DHEA than the control
Neurobics
Neurobics are mental exercises used to form new neural pathways in the brain. Neurobics involves making sensual connections. Making these multi-sensory associations, and doing something novel that is important or engaging to you are key conditions for an effective neurobic exercise. Mental exercise helps improve focus, memory, and creates a cognitive map in your brain that may serve as a framework for future stimulations.
Five Helpful Neurobic Exercises for Brain Exercise and Better Memory
Non-dominant hand exercises with writing
Incorporates movement and function in many muscle groups, which has palpable benefits
The key exercise
Everything, from getting out of the elevator, walking to your front door, getting out your keys, identifying the key that’s needed, putting the key into the keyhole, turning the key to unlock the door, opening the door, stepping inside, and closing the door, can, with, practice, be done with your eyes closed
Enhances your spatial recognition and your other senses will be in a heightened sense of awareness, all by removing sight from the equation
Eyes closed navigation exercise
In a familiar, unobstructed area, walk through it to a destination of your choosing with your eyes closed. Try it with a partner watching and step off the elevator, or out of the stairwell and walk down the hallway with your eyes closed
Take different routes
Try changing your micro-traveling routes such as your work, school, friend's house, or take the "scenic" route somedays.
“The really happy people are those who have broken the chains of procrastination, those who find satisfaction in doing the job at hand. They’re full of eagerness, zest, productivity. You can be, too.”
– Norman Vincent Peale
Science Behind Procrastination
Procrastination is the avoidance of work or necessary tasks by focusing on more enjoyable activities. Procrastination stems from lack of self-motivation, lazy habits or incompetence. However, procrastination is a chemical reaction in the brain encapsulated by a battle between the limbic system and the prefrontal cortex. The limbic system is the emotional center of the brain containing pleasure centers and the prefrontal cortex is the rational part of the brain, which controls planning and decision making. Many times the prefrontal cortex is less developed and weaker, leaving the limbic system to take over leading to procrastination. Sometimes procrastination is rooted in perfectionism and having the ability to reprogram these perfectionist habits into "good enough" work tends to help individuals let go and move on to greater goals. For me, perfectionism is a huge obstacle I face when overcoming procrastination. In school, I tend to procrastinate studying for an exam because I want to study the material from the beginning to end of the subject matter in totality and with primal sufficiency. In reality, studying for about one to two hours each day about two weeks in advance to an exam allows for maximum competency and adequate retrieval of important material for my exams.
Another essential aspect of procrastination patterns involves accountability. When procrastination, distractions, or inability to tap into our intuition comes up how do we take action, find clarity, and navigate this road map? Tara Swart explains that we must initiate a sustainable behavior change where you are able to naturally behave in the way that you desire through a four step process;
Raising Awareness
Unblocking subconscious beliefs to make these thoughts conscious
Focused Attention
Looking out for examples of you doing things based on your subconscious blocker or finding opportunities to behave differently
Deliberate Practice
Reprograming neural pathways with your new way of thinking by no longer believing what you were wired to believe.
Accountability
Holding yourself accountable and sometimes allowing another person, workshop, or therapeutic practice to help you hold yourself accountable provides immense benefits. Accountability partners can include a friend, sibling, coworker, partner, or even technology can assist you in staying consistent and keeping on track to accomplish your goals.
"The way that you think determines your life" -Tara Swart
To learn more about reprogramming subconscious habits and specifically finding clarity, listening to intuitive "pings", and overcoming procrastination listen to the To Be Magnetic EXPLAINED episode:
Behind the Scenes
"Brains of procrastinators have a larger amygdala, which is part of the limbic system known for fight or flight"
Called the "Amygdala Hijack," the brain of the procrastinator reacts emotionally followed by a coping response to escape the stressor. This hijack signals our brains to escape these negative emotions experienced during the activity and avoiding the task. The brains' perception of the future is another important brain reaction. One study conducted by Hal Hershfield at UCLA found that the brain views our future self the same as viewing another person.
Another important brain reaction is how it perceives the future. Research done by UCLA social psychologist Hal Hershfield found that the brain views our future self in the same way it views another person. The researchers utilized a functional MRI to look at the brains of people when they thought of their present self, their future self, or others. They found that the same part of the brain lights up when we think about our future self as thinking about another person. "Temporal discounting" is the idea that characteristically people care less about future outcomes than about present ones. Mischel et al. found that children are better able to postpone a desirable reward when they think about the informative and "cool" parts of the object rather than the consummatory "hot" aspects of the reward. The children were offered two sets of reward object options; either one small marshmallow or two marshmallows and a bell. The experimenter indicated guidelines that if the child would wait until they returned, the child would receive the preferred object of two marshmallows. If the child did not want to wait, they could ring the bell during the 15-20 minute period at any time and receive the less preferred single marshmallow.
It’s also human nature to seek pleasure. “We want to feel good now,” says Pychyl. “It’s hedonistic over eudaimonic, which is the happiness we feel when we achieve meaningful goals.
How to Reprogram Procrastination
Though overcoming procrastination is difficult, it is possible with a few habitual changes. The most effective method is taking preventative measures. Schedule and complete tasks ahead of time. For instance, work a little bit on a project each night, you’ll have much less to do when the deadline comes.
Don’t focus on a perfect, finished product, but rather getting a head start; all of the free time you have later can be dedicated to refining the project. Here are some simple, streamlined steps to avoid and overcome procrastination;
Recognize Procrastination Patterns
After re-prioritizing your work, you may run into some procrastination where you have delayed important tasks and switched focus because you want to avoid something or are fearful of a tremendous workload.
Some signs of my procrastination patterns include;
a. Filling day with low-priority tasks
b. Leaving items on a to-do list for prolonged periods of time
c. Re-reading emails, text messages, or important calls because one is unsure what to do or how to respond
d. Filling time with favors that others ask you to do
e. Waiting to be in the "right mood" or waiting for the "right time" to take on an awaiting task
Find Out Why You Are Procrastinating
Understand why you are procrastinating; is the task boring or unpleasant? Use Mel Robbins' Five Second Rule to help jumpstart your morning and dive into a productive day.
Poor organization may also lead to procrastination and those who maintain to-do lists and create effective schedules have better success prioritizing and meeting deadlines
Being overwhelmed may also lead to procrastination. Do you doubt your ability or are you afraid of failure? If so, you may put off important tasks and seek comfort in doing more simplistic and pleasurable activities. Some may even fear success as much as they fear failure, which requires vast unblocking, expanding, and action in order to overcome
Poor-decision making is a main contributor to procrastination. One may be indecisive on what to do or find comfort in what they are doing already, which leads to submitting to their default pathway.
Try Anti-Procrastination Strategies
Procrastination is a habit – an ingrained pattern of behavior, meaning it is difficult to break these patterns overnight. Habits only stop being habits when you avoid practicing them, so try these strategies for success in breaking negative habits;
a. Forgive yourself for procrastinating in the past. Self-forgiveness can help one feel more positive and reduce procrastination events in the future.
b. Commit to the task. Focus on doing, not avoiding. Write down the tasks that you need to complete, and specify a time for doing them. This will help you to proactively tackle your work.
c. Promise yourself a reward. If you complete a difficult task on time, reward yourself with a treat, such as a slice of pizza or your favorite candy from 7-Eleven. Take in the how good it feels to be done after fulfilling your goal.
d. Find an accountability partner. As mentioned previously, holding yourself and having someone to hold you accountable is essential to overcoming procrastination. If you don't have anyone to ask, joining a program like To Be Magnetic could be your gateway to success.
e. Complete your tasks one step at a time. Sometimes compiling several tasks on top of one another leads to overwhelming feelings and giving up. Try taking simple steps each day that help on your journey towards your goals.
f. Rephrase your internal dialog. "Your body hears everything your mind says" -Naomi Judd. Also, sometimes phrases like "need to" and "have to," indicate that you have no choice in what you do. This can make you feel restricted and might result in self-sabotage . Try saying, "I want to," to imply that you own a decision, project, or habit and will make you feel more in control of your life.
g. Minimize distractions . Turn off your text messages, email, social media, and avoid sitting near a television while you work. This optimizes focus and promotes a continuous flow of ideas.
You might hesitate for a just nanosecond, but that's all it takes. That one small hesitation triggers a mental system that's designed to stop you. And it happens in less than—you guessed it—five seconds.” -Mel Robbins
Tips For Success
Are you procrastinating because you find a task unpleasant, dissatisfying, tedious, or boring? Focus on the long game or long term benefits. Impulsive people are more likely to procrastinate because they are focused on short-term gains. Combat this by identifying the long-term benefits of completing your desired tasks.
Another way to make a task more enjoyable is to identify the unpleasant consequences of avoiding it. For instance, what will happen if you don't complete the work? How might it affect your personal, team or organizational goals? Are you fearful of your parents' expectations? Find the root of these limiting beliefs.
It can be useful to reframe the task by looking at its relevance and if it aligns with your most authentic self. This increase its value to you and make your work more worthwhile. It's also important to acknowledge that we can often overestimate the unpleasantness of a task. Joseph Murphy, in The Power of the Subconscious Mind, points out that completing a task for 15 minutes a day leads to exponential benefits in overcoming procrastination.
If you procrastinate because you're disorganized, here are six strategies to help you get organized:
Keeping a To-Do List. Prevents from "conveniently" forgetting about grueling tasks.
Prioritize your To-Do List. Utilizing Eisenhower's Urgent/Important Principles. Eisenhower's techniques allow you to prioritize important and urgent tasks and help identify the activities that require more focus while deferring tasks that are less important.
Become adequate at scheduling and planning. If you have a big project or multiple projects on the go and you don't know where to start, these tools can help you to plan your time effectively, and reduce your stress levels.
Complete the Hardest Tasks at Most Efficient Times. Depending on if you work better in the morning, afternoon or night, identify when you are most effective, and do the tasks that you find most overwhelming at those times.
Set timely and manageable goals. Setting specific deadlines to complete longer tasks will keep you on track to achieve your goals. If you tend to delay projects because you find them overwhelming, try dividing them into more manageable chunks.
Learn the "Ivy Lee" Method
"Daily Performance for Peak Productivity"
Five Steps For Success:
I. At the end of each work day, write down six most essential things you need to accomplish tomorrow. Limiting tasks to no more than six tasks
II. Prioritize those six items in order of their true importance
III. When you arrive tomorrow, concentrate only on the first task. In an orderly fashion, work through the first task before moving to the second task
IV. Approach the other tasks on your list in the same way. Then, at the end of the day, move the unfinished items to a new list of six tasks for the following day
V. Repeat this process every working day
Why This Method is Effective
I. Simplicity
This method is basic and simple, complexity often becomes a weakness due to resistance to getting back on track. Sometimes emergencies and higher priority tasks may arise unexpectedly. One way to combat this is to ignore unexpected distractions if they are not vital to completing that day. Try to stick to your prioritized to-do list and use simple rules to guide your complex behavior.
II. Tough Decision Making
With this list of six tasks on your to-do list, you are imposing limits on yourself and "pruning" away unnecessary habits or unproductive aspects of your day. This helps when you have too many ideas and it becomes overwhelming, similar to Warren Buffet's 5/25 Rule where you essentially focus and commit to five tasks each day. Ivy Lee's method helps limit the "friction of starting" and eliminates varying decisions by forcing one to decide on the first task the night before you begin the work. I can wake up and start writing immediately. It's simple, but it works. In the beginning, getting started is just as important as succeeding at all.
III. Required "Single-Tasking"
It requires you to single-task. Modern society loves multi-tasking. The myth of multi-tasking is that being busy is synonymous with being better. The exact opposite is true. Having fewer priorities leads to better work. Study world-class experts in nearly any field—athletes, artists, scientists, teachers, CEOs—and find one characteristic comparable within them all: focus. With simplistic reasoning that you can't be great at one task if you're constantly dividing your time several different ways. Mastery requires focus and consistency.
~Trick~ Do the most important thing first each day
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